A Sure Way To Break A Spell

By Arline Bradley


It is not normally easy to disentangle yourself from a chain that one is tied with. The situation even becomes more complicated when you are not aware that you are under some external influence that is beyond your control. In order to break a spell therefore, you need to be a little bit cautious. Some wisdom is required to deal with such a situation.

Relationships have a soft spot for spells. Control of affairs is always totally taken by one of the spouse. A third party is at times involved in terms of consultations. Such a lover makes you extremely dependent on them such that without them you fell totally void. They end up being your key decision makers on serious life issues. This is a spell in its best sense.

The most surprising reality to come into terms with is that when you are under a spell, others who will realize it. However, on your part it will seem like everything is normal. All the attempts of your family members and friends to convince you will fail. You will feel that they do not understand you or are not happy with your lucky situation.

The great ancient philosopher, Socrates, said one should know himself. This means that an individual should be aware of both your strengths and weaknesses. There is need for you to recognize all your areas of vulnerability so that you can prepare yourself prior to any trial. The biggest problem with most people is failure to accept opinions from other people. Although we are supposed to weigh them, its wrong to always dismiss them.

Sometimes we feel that we know ourselves so much that we do not give a damn about what anybody says. However, its quite regrettable that we fail to understand that it is the observer who can see where the problem is. The wisest move therefore, is for us to listen more than we speak. Once we have listened, we should put what we have heard to deep contemplation before giving a decisive response.

Having big ears and a small mouth is thus a prerequisite for breaking a spell. At some point the situation might be quite offending or humiliating but swallow your pride. It is said that pride comes before a fall. The wisest man on earth is that who recognizes the reality that we cannot have things happening our way all the time. Sometimes we need to take what others propose into consideration and act upon them.

The second and crucial step is to take the necessary step, however hurting it might be. In most cases it is someone closest to you like your spouse who puts you into such situations. Through the freedom that you give them, they can make your life miserable if you are not careful. The decision might involve speaking the truth and stopping some evil acts that have been happening in the background.

Anyone should not brag since we are all vulnerable to a spell. Instead, each of us needs basic skills of breaking loose when the situation allows. Vigilance is mandatory. Positive thinking and deep situational analysis are vital to all of us. Learn to stand by your decisions.




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